Life as an adopted child can be difficult and challenging as my sister, brother and I experienced at a young age. Our biological parents were tragically separated from us and in their deaths, we were introduced to the Wilsey family. Who took all three of us in after our tribal court awarded them legal custody.

In the end, I was able to live with my brother and sister for our young lives. That can not be replaced and for which I am eternally grateful. My brother and sister used to be my life, watching these kids really reminds me of how lucky I was to be with my brother and sister.

Today I am blessed with my own son and several children I help raise, who are grandchildren of my girlfriend.

Today the children offered to help me water the gardens and it brought back memories of my Mom Wilsey, who raised me. On this day of remembering it reminds me of why I enjoy some of the activities I participate in today.

If not for my Ma Wilsey, I probably would not have this desire to garden and even paint. As challenging as it must have been for her to bring us into the home, she was continually providing an excellent example of how to take care of the family home. This included everything from cleaning to making gardens and weeding the lawn on the weekends while the fellows played ball.

Thanks, Mom for instilling some value in me to pass along. My experiences with this lady have not all been positive but she instilled motivation in me, which is important.

Have a blessed day and remember all those who motivate us to care for each other.